04. What's Love ?

What's Love? 🤔

 

Hello all my dear readers !!

How's your awesome life going? 

Today I thought of an amazing topic to pen. ✍

You may have guessed that from the title.

It's also one of our special requests. 

Okay, let me make things clear right from here.

I'm going to discuss about LOVE ❤ and more specifically, the ' ROMANTIC LOVE ' love. And I am sure, you would look at it from a completely different perspective after you finish reading this.

These are words straight from my heart. 

You may definitely have your own meaning to what love is. But, my entire effort is just to possibly change or improve someone's sense of perceiving things. 

Love is indeed something that inspires some and sometimes becomes a hindrance to a successful life. People realize it or not, is a completely different question.

What's Love all about?   

"Love is freedom, it's joy, it's UNDERSTANDING, it's caring and love is everything."

I see and hear about many innocent individuals who, at the first, fall in 'love', enjoy like anything, have the best times of their lives, then quarrel, separate themselves, painful time.... etc. and waste quite a good amount of time, energy, efforts, emotional balance and a very crucial part of life. 

See, there's one very important thing to keep in mind about love. 

" There's no one sided love! " 

You read that right. 

Before making opinions about the statement, hear me out. 

If there's someone to be with in your life, she/he will definitely show up when you keep working on your goals.

With God's grace and nature's magic, you will surely meet the LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. Yes you will !

Never try and 'FIND' love, never. 

(Read that again)

You may now ask, "what about that girl or boy for whom I used to die for, had feelings, cried for?" 

My friend, that feeling and those butterflies in your stomach when you saw that person, were not signs of love. 💕 

They were, and are, due to biological, psychological and hormonal factors. It was/is none of your fault, it happens. That's mere attraction to the beautiful opposite gender. 

Here, read this carefully: 

"  A relationship established on the foundations of aesthetics, appearance and status, tends to finish off too early. " 

Love has no colour, height, weight and all. A relationship has to have no kind of boundaries. If you even think for once, that the person is not the one, she/he isn't the one, simple.

Now, here comes the most amazing thing you'll read today. It'll blow your mind off.

I say that, loving a girl/boy is not at all bad. No worries at all. The only and only problem lies in the tendency when YOU TRY TO OWN THAT PERSON, BECOME POSSESSIVE ABOUT THEM. 

This is sooooooooo wrong. I can't stress this more. 

Why have rights over a person? Let them live freely, on their means, choices and decisions. 

I support and even advice you to tell a person that you love him/her and really admire them. Go and express yourself. 

That's it bloody, why is it so complicated. 

Tell them that you love 'em, they are awesome, lovely, worth hanging out with, bestest of all. 

Believe me guys, this is life changing.

I speak from experience.

All these words of little wisdom come from my own little brain, mentors and dear parents and I truly respect their teachings. 

The present portray of love is very disheartening as it engulfs the youth and wastes their life. 

It's high time we understand and spread awareness about these issues as it's there but no one speaks up. Even cinema, advertisements and music industry play a huge role in contributing to the plight. 

We both, the females and males have to play out part.

It's time to do great things in life. Remember great things refer to accomplishing your own dreams, not those expectations of society. 

Love is great, no bad for this emotion but the outlook is not correct. 

If we try and change our perspective, the very value of  LOVE  gets restored. 

Love is and will always be the most powerful gift to the mankind. 

That's all dear readers. 

An sincere effort to help improve the prevalent issues. 

Hope you liked it and got to know about a totally different image of love. 

Comment section open for healthy discussions. 😊

Keep loving. ❤ 

Be healthy.

Be happy.

Be helpful.

Stay tuned for more stuff on SELF - DEVELOPMENT. 

~ Sunny Soni 

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